
"Does religion terrify you?" – a question I saw on LinkedIn a while back…
Is it proper to ask questions about religion in the workplace or on a professional network like LinkedIn? While HR often causes us to wonder about “what is ok” – I like to think about what isn’t ok…
I have long held that
if there were only one way to believe than
that one way would have been made clear long, long ago and the many
(all human life) would know
that way and follow with a sincere love and desire to do "what is right".
And yet this is not the case, there are
many ways to believe, many sanctuaries in which to worship – including the grandeur that is our beautiful earth, and there are nations,
across this earth, where ritual, tradition, and governmental rules guide how belief is fulfilled or carried out. [Judgment is not mine but reserved for one far greater than I – whomever or whatever that might be.]
The perspective that each of us carries within us rises to lead our actions and beliefs. Perspective. No one could possibly understand what my perspective is or how my core beliefs have been established. They are resultant of the life I have lived, the pain and joy I have experienced, and certain teachings that have reached inside of me and wrapped around who I am like a tenacious, clinging vine.
Each of us finds a way to live with ourselves and the life around us: to live with selfish and/or angry thoughts, to live with the harsh realities that have become "normal", why I have less or more than my neighbor, why I suffered domestic abuse and she did not, why they live in squalor and we do not, why this nation is fortunate and that is not, why the way they love is wrong but ours isn’t, why my skin color
or sex
or age is not the right one to get the job but his is, why should she have so many babies when others cannot, and so on…, so many reasons to hate. This should not be a part of any religion and yet there it is front and center on almost every newspaper, the topic of almost every sermon, and the center of almost every war:
You are different than I and that is wrong.
Just Sad.
How can differences be wrong when,
supposedly, a greater being created everything? Differences are to be embraced and learned from.., they are ways for me to learn tolerance and erase selfishness, not ways to keep you or anyone else down.
How you choose to live can be determined by one question to ask yourself, "what is my purpose?" When you can answer that with true conviction, the rest will fall into place.
The Golden Rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Simple enough and yet practically everyone has trouble
truly living it.
It
isn’t any of the following:
– “Treat others the way
you think they should be treated."
– “Tell others the way they should live.”
– “Believe what I believe because that is the right way.”
– “Love the way I love because your way is sinful.”
If this simple golden rule were adhered to and lived, there would be no need for
the thousands of years old ten commandments or even governmental laws. Many say that one man cannot make a difference, I do not believe this. One man, one woman or one child can make
one difference at a time,
all the time.
What difference will you make?
Rayanne Thorn, @ray_anne is the Marketing Director for the online recruiting software company, Broadbean Technology. She is also a proud mother of four residing in Laguna Beach, California, and a contributor for Blogging4Jobs. Connect with her on LinkedIn.
